Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Looking For Life-Changing Reading? Find It Here.

Reviews of a love story for every soul.

Click on the following links to read reviews of


Your Personal Apostolate:
Accepting and Sharing the Love of God
by Michele Elena Bondi


The Catholic Press Association of the United States and Canada (B21):

http://www.catholicpress.org/resource/resmgr/files/2010_book_winners.pdf

Plot, Line, and Sinker, by Ellen Gable

http://ellengable.wordpress.com/2010/08/24/book-reviewyour-personal-apostolate-by-michele-elena-bondi/

U.S.Catholic, by Carrie MacGillis:

http://www.uscatholic.org/culture/art-and-reviews/2010/06/your-personal-apostolate-accepting-and-sharing-love-god

Spiritual Woman, by Patrice-Fagnant MacArthur

http://spiritualwomanthoughts.blogspot.com/2009/08/book-review-your-personal-apostolate.html

The Italian American Press

http://www.italianamericanpress.com/IA%20Sites/IASP%20Writers.html


Not sure what God has in store for you?
His plans are wondrous, loving, and beautiful!
Accept Him, seek Him, love Him,
and share His love with those around you.

This book is wonderful for
reading and discussion groups
or to read alone.

Be encouraged and inspired
as you continue the formation
of your extraordinarily beautiful
Catholic faith!

Share the message with others.

Accept, return, and share the love of God
which is all encompassing,
never ending,
and
can never be contained.

Prepare to be amazed,
for
God is at work in you!

Monday, August 23, 2010

Looking For Life-Changing Reading?

God Moments: Stories That Inspire, Moments to Remember is coming soon!



Share your God moments
and have them considered for the sequel
(coming 2011).


Send your stories to
godisatworkinyou@gmail.com


God is at work in you!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

God Is At Work In You! Getting To Know Jerry Weber

Wonderful host of The Catholic Revolver with Jerry.

Jerry, please share with us some background information about you.

Sure, I was born and raised in Oceanside, California which is a coastal city in North San Diego County. I have two older sisters, one of which I did not even know I had until 1987; turns out she was given up for adoption by my parents, but she found us in ‘87, she is my oldest sister. I grew up with my other sister, however she got married and moved away at a very young age.

So I was primarily an only child and being that both my parents worked a lot, I really do feel I raised myself in many ways. I went through many phases as a teenager as most teenagers do, and I really did not care for school at all. Surprisingly, I graduated high school one semester early, and failed only one class in all four years.

My parents divorced in my early teens and so I lived with my mother until moving away from home in my late teens, and have been a working adult ever since. I have spent the majority of my life in Southern California, but I also lived in Arizona for about four years.


Are you a Cradle Catholic or did you convert to Catholicism?

I’m a Cradle Catholic. Proud to be Catholic my entire life, I really did not have much interest in the Church though until my late teens when I felt God calling me. While my mom was Catholic, we simply did not have a religious household. I went to Catholic school for half a year in the sixth grade, and while I truly enjoyed learning about the Bible and our Church, I did not like having to go to the Boys & Girls Club after school, something I had to do because the school was not close to home and my parents worked so much. Eventually I was moved to our local public school so I could walk home after school.

I felt God calling me when I was around 17 years old, and that is when I really first started to take interest in the Church, and felt called to be closer to Christ. It hasn’t always been smooth-sailing through the years, and I still have a ways to go in terms of being the Catholic I truly want to be, but I’m getting there and I thank God so much for loving me and always looking out for me.

What do you like best about being Catholic?

Having the fullness of the truth! There is no doubt in my mind that the Catholic Church is the True Church, and I feel so blessed that God saw to it that I was baptized Catholic. I tell people that it was certainly no mistake that my parents chose to have me baptized, as God wanted me to be Catholic and wanted me to be an active Catholic,and I still have a ton of room for improvement, but I hear Him calling all the time!

Who was instrumental in your faith formation? Who are your heroes?

I would have to say God was the absolute most instrumental in my faith formation! Prior to feeling called by Him in my late teens, I really had no interest in the Church. I believed in God, and was more than proud to tell people that I was Catholic, but I had no desire to live a Catholic life or to avoid many of the sins that had been part of my life for much of my teen years. Yet, God called me in ways that He knew I would take notice, and He showed me how beautiful and even exciting the Church can be. My heroes here on earth are people like Kurt Warner who I feel is just a tremendous man who really demonstrated how a professional athlete should present himself, and how it’s so important to put God first in our lives.

Also Karen Carpenter is someone I admire greatly. She is my favorite singer of all time and while she battled and eventually lost her life to such a terrible eating disorder, she and her brother Richard Carpenter left us with such beautiful music. I imagine she is still singing like an angel up in heaven today. How can I not say that Christ is our Hero in Heaven!! I realize that being a hero wasn’t really the main purpose of His life and that He is much MORE than a hero, but I can’t think of a more brave and strong man than Our Lord and Savior! How blessed we are that God gave this world His only begotten Son!

How did you get your start in radio?

I became friends with Lisa Hendey on Facebook in 2009, and I noticed that she was the host of a very popular and successful Catholic podcast called “Catholic Moments.” For some reason I felt the desire to be a guest on her show, and so I contacted her and asked if she would consider inviting me on. I’m just an average guy, I’m not an author or a musician, and especially before I started my own show I was not that well known at all. She was gracious enough to invite me on, and we talked about my battle with anxiety and depression that I’ve dealt with my entire life, how I became close to the faith, and how it’s helped me. I returned to her show a second time in December of 2009. I was also a guest on a some pro-Sarah Palin internet radio shows in 2009 and early 2010.

When did you start hosting the Catholic Revolver?

In March 2010, so it’s still a rather young show. I look forward to many more years of The Catholic Revolver, and have great future plans for the show!

What was the genesis of the show?

Once I made the decision to start my own show, I narrowed it down to five possibilities. It was either going to be about Catholicism, conservative politics, health, music, or a combination of all of those topics. When I asked for some suggestions on Facebook for example, as you can imagine most of my Catholic friends suggested I make it a Catholic show, and most of my non-Catholic friends who are conservative suggested I make it a political show.

Once I thought about it, though, it was a no-brainer to me that it needed to be a Catholic show. God and the Church must come first, because really none of the other things matter without God to begin with. I have the flexibility to discuss other topics on my show from time to time and I do, but I’m so proud that it’s mainly a Catholic show that often discusses the beauty of our Church and also the things we must do as Christians in general to stand up for God and to put Him first in our lives.

Does a particular saint help you with your mission?

At this point in time I would have to say no, but keep in mind that doesn’t mean a saint isn’t helping me behind the scenes and I just don’t notice it yet. Perhaps saints I have prayed to for intercession in the past are coming through for me now in ways that I’m not noticing at the moment. I’d like to think that St. Benedict of Nursia may understand a lot of my personality and the way I try to live my life, which includes hosting my show. The Benedictines seem very organized, work very hard, and take pride in their work, and I think I’m very much that way in many things I do.

How did you come up with the name “The Catholic Revolver?” Wonderful logo, by the way.


I wanted to create a unique name for the show, obviously something that had not been taken already by another show or a website, blog, etc. I enjoy The Old West via many western movies, and some older western shows like “Bonanza” for example, and so for some reason while thinking of a name one day the word “revolver” came to mind, and I’ve always thought it was a catchy word.

Now obviously a revolver gun has nothing to do with the Catholic Church, but I thought of what else “revolver” means. Realizing that I wanted my show to be primarily Catholic, I thought how neat it would sound because it could mean that my show “revolves” around the Catholic Church. I wanted the flexibility to branch out to other topics from time to time, so I have guests who at times talk about sports, health and well-being, music, etc., but the show's main topic WILL always be Catholicism. So the name “The Catholic Revolver with Jerry” just clicked to me instantly!

Thank you so much for your compliment on the show's logo, I’m certainly no expert on digital art or anything, but the Holy Spirit really flowed through me and I was able to create a very beautiful logo.

What is the mission of your show?

To help either inspire, inform, and or educate anyone that’s listening. As proud as I am about the gifts that God has given me, as well as the resources I have to host the show, I want my guests to be the focus of the show over myself. When my listeners tune in to any episode, I want them to feel like they learned a lot about that particular guest, and to perhaps feel like they may have even just listened to that guest speak to them in their own living room.

There are some other internet radio shows and podcasts out there that require their guests to be either well known or famous, and I don’t believe in doing that. I like to provide a format for anyone who truly has something they want to express and share. They may be passionate about something, or be very educated in a certain topic, and to me they often make better guests than those who might be famous. That’s not to say I have not had famous guests though, or that I would not continue to invite them on the show. My point is that you don’t have to be a name that everyone recognizes in order to be a fantastic guest on The Catholic Revolver.

What do you enjoy most about hosting a radio program?

I get to connect with people that I otherwise would not have been able to. I enjoy learning about all my guests, it doesn’t matter to me if they are either an author of many books, or a stay at home mom that is just passionate about being a wife and mother. I simply love hearing their stories and also being able to make friendships with them in the process.

In your opinion, what are the greatest challenges people face in our modern era?

I think many of the challenges I notice really stem from living in a Godless society. This is a day and age where so many people and institutions have gone out of their way to remove God, and to promote a New Age lifestyle. I can only imagine what a beautiful world this would be if we all turned back to God, and even more so if we turned back to HIS Church!

I think right now in this country so many are caught up in politics and I think it’s good that many are angry at what is going on in our wonderful country right now, but often politics can pull us away from God and replace Him with a political party. I have been active at times politically, I even attend Tea Parties from time to time. What I realize though, is that many of the political problems we face today are a result of people turning their back on God and allowing evil to claim victory in their lives. I could never imagine anyone ever being pro-choice for example if we were all living Godly lives. We must put God first, not a political party or any politician!

What are your aspirations for the future?

First and foremost to do what God wants me to do, and that might be entirely different from what I want, but I know whatever He asks of me will keep me the most happy and fulfilled because it will ultimately be serving Him and living for Him.

In terms of what I desire though, I can see myself being a husband and father (neither of which I am yet), and I’d like to live in a rural area, perhaps on a few acres of land. I enjoy hard work around the house, and I would love the yard work that comes with owning a few acres, it’s very healthy for me, too. In addition to that, being the best husband and father I can be if I happened to be married and have children, and doing everything we can as a family to be active and strong Catholics, and doing all we can to serve God here on earth. Those things would definitely make me happy.

I really have no desire to travel the world, or to be extremely wealthy, or to be famous. I just want to live a happy and often quiet life in the country. I actually find it interesting hearing myself say that when I’ve been a city boy my entire life.

Please tell us what your hobbies are.

I love watching sports, listening to music, playing pool, sometimes playing video games (mostly sports games), and home improvement projects! I have a fairly nice music collection that I will continue to add to as long as I live. I especially enjoy collecting hard to find oldies but goodies, and even rare gems from some of my favorite bands. And how can I not mention my internet radio show as a huge hobby in my life now, as well as listening to other Catholic radio shows on the internet, or tuning into Catholic radio stations via the internet.

Do you have any favorite causes?

I really like Kurt Warner’s First Things First Foundation. For those that don’t know, Kurt Warner is a former NFL Quarterback who retired this year. He and his wife Brenda are very strong Christians and do tremendous work with this foundation. I also like Priests For Life which does such great work for the pro-life movement, and of course Fr. Frank Pavone is doing wonderful work with this ministry along with all of the other things he currently does to defend life! There are so many great causes out there, but those two really come to mind the quickest for me.

Here are the links to both:



My children are curious if you like sports and if you have any pets.

I love sports! Baseball is my favorite (Go Padres!), football comes in second, with hockey and basketball taking the final two spots. I don’t care for golf or tennis, not that I don’t think they have talented athletes; those sports just don’t interest me.

Currently I don’t have any pets. I love dogs though, and my favorite breed is Chihuahuas. I had a Chihuahua for a short period of time named Bella. I loved her so much and still miss her a lot! I imagine I will have another dog or two one day when the time is right!

Please share anything else that you would like people to know about you, your show, and/or your mission.

I would say that I’m a great example and reminder of how God really can call all of us to do his work if we are open to hearing his call. I have no professional training in hosting a show, currently I’m out of work and so finances are very limited, and I’m certainly far from being as knowledgeable on the faith as let’s say someone like Archbishop Fulton Sheen is! I still pronounce the names of certain saints wrong on my show sometimes, or have my facts wrong from time to time.

Bottom line though is I’m still learning much about being Catholic, and I’m still a work in progress, as we all are! Still, I know God appreciates my efforts and will continue to mold me into what He wants me to be, and I know that my hosting abilities will improve over time because of Him.

We don’t have to be perfect at doing things right away, and the fact of the matter is we will never be perfect at anything, but when we continue working hard at what God wants us to do we can be assured that we will succeed because He will equip us with the tools we need to get the job done. And that doesn’t mean it will always go smoothly, or that we will never make mistakes, but God never calls us to do what we aren’t equipped to do!


God is at work in you, Jerry!

Saturday, August 21, 2010

My Introduction to the Tridentine Mass

The adventure continues.

This evening I dropped my boys off at the front door of our church so they could get dressed in their altar boy cassocks before Holy Mass. I then parked our van, and my daughter and I walked across the parking lot to the front doors of the church. Just as we got there, my two sons were walking back out.

There was going to be a different type of Mass tonight! I asked them if they would still be able to be altar boys, and they said yes. As we walked into the vestibule of the church, I wondered what was next. I thought we were getting a good handle on learning everything at our new parish. Recently I had even started singing, in Latin, during the Wednesday morning Latin Mass. That is, until I realized that I still don't know the words to the song. At least I was feeling more comfortable! So there we were this evening, once again facing the unfamiliar.

When we walked into the vestibule, our wonderful pastor was there. He told me that the next Mass was a Tridentine Mass and asked if we had ever been to one. I said that we had not. As my sons left to go put their cassocks on, Father said to me, "Stay right here!"


All kinds of thoughts ran through my mind at that moment. I knew something different and significant was about to happen. This year has been so unique as God continues to expand our Catholic horizons in ways I never could have imagined or thought possible. My constant companion is the feeling of being swept away by the phenomenal tide of Catholicism. What was next?

Father explained a little about the Mass and again insisted we "Stay right here!" So I asked with wonder, "We can't go into the church?" I saw that there were other people in there.

How funny. He said that yes we could go into the church. He simply did not want us to leave because we were intimidated or didn't feel comfortable. We stayed, and are richer for having experienced the Tridentine Mass.

How beautiful Catholicism is, how meaningful, how loving!


How many beautiful Catholic stories abound within our families and among our friends, encouraging stories, inspiring stories, life-changing stories, funny stories!

I'll share one more with you.

What seems like a lifetime ago, we were called to our former parish for what would be a ten year stay. One day I took my daughter, who was very little at the time, into the chapel to pray. The chapel was empty, except for us. While praying I noticed that my toddler was staring intently at the life-sized crucifix behind the altar. I remember thinking that she already had such a deep faith to be staring like that at the crucifix.


As we were leaving, Alyssa said to me, "Mama, are they going to do that to us?"

That poor little girl had probably been thinking the whole time, "What are you sitting here for, get us out of here!"

One thing she recognized correctly as she stared at an image we sometimes take for granted is the barbaric nature of the suffering and death that Jesus endured because of His tremendous love for mankind.

Make it a point to go to Holy Mass.

God is at work in you!

____________
Crucifix at St. Andrew Catholic Church Chapel by Suzanne Young.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Jerry Weber Interviews Anne Hughes on "The Catholic Revolver"

The inspiration behind Letters to Priests talks with Jerry about the genesis and mission of her special new book.


Click on the following link to listen to the show:



To learn more about this beautiful book
or to contribute a letter,
please visit:
http://www.letterstopriests.com

God is at work in you, Anne!

Fr. Donald Calloway's Testimony Of His Remarkable Conversion

From the Catholic Marketing Network's International Trade Show in Valley Forge, PA, August 2010.










If you have not read Fr. Calloway's book
No Turning Back: A Witness to Mercy (Marion Press),
be sure to get it, read it, and pass it around!


God is at work in you!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

My Visit With Jerry Weber on "The Catholic Revolver."

No person should ever feel lost, because God knows where you are, He loves you, and He has plans for your life.
Click on the link below
to hear Jerry and Michele discuss how
God is at work, in each one of us.


http://www.blogtalkradio.com/catholicrevolver/2010/08/18/the-catholic-revolver-with-jerry--michele-bondi-bottesi


Accept the great love He has for YOU!

God is at work in you.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Are We Headed For One Device That Does It All?

Technological integration may soon render individual devices obsolete.

http://finance.yahoo.com/family-home/article/110304/6-endangered-tech-species

Let Love Lead To Life, the Right Choice


Notice the little ones in the picture, on the right.
Click on the picture to see it bigger--it's delightful!

Every apostolate begins at the moment of conception.
Everyone matters, no matter how small!



A Letter To You, From Priests for Life
.

We are calling on each of you to be a “Freedom Rider for the Unborn”. Not only are you invited to come to the nation’s second Pro-life Freedom Ride (Knoxville to Chattanooga, TN, October 15-16), but you are invited to participate in the Freedom Ride activities right in your own home beginning on the first of September.


How do you do that?

You can sign up at www.ProLifeFreedomRides.com and you will receive shortly thereafter the special training guidelines that will walk you through the two key themes of this Fall’s Freedom Rides, namely The Freedom of Healing and The Freedom of Justice.

The website explains more about these themes and the activities connected with them.

When you sign up to be a Freedom Rider, and commit to these special activities, you will also receive a Pro-life Freedom Rider button to wear.

We will also have a nationwide conference call/webcast on Tuesday evening September 7 to help you prepare. Details will be sent to you after you sign up.

One of the elements of our Freedom Ride will be the prayer campaign for the elections. This will be a nine-week novena of prayer, from September 1 through Election Day (November 2). Please see the prayer at www.PrayerCampaign.org ,and you can also order the election prayer cards for distribution to your family, parish, school, pro-life group, and beyond!

There is also a special prayer novena of nine days coming up in honor of Mother Teresa of Calcutta, whose anniversary of death is September 5. At PrayerCampaign.org you can also see the special prayer in her memory, and order those prayer cards too.

After today’s column you will find our media schedule for this week. Beginning on September 2, 2010 our Defending Life series on EWTN will be airing brand new shows and will have brand new airing time. The show will now air on Thursday’s at 11pm ET and will continue to air on Saturday’s at 2:30am. The show will no longer air on Friday nights. This will be a great opportunity for us to reach new audiences. We ask for your help to let others know about our new airing time, especially those who may have been unavailable to catch the show on Friday nights.

Blessings,
Fr. Frank Pavone

National Director, Priests for Life

Praise for our work

Father Frank is a long-time supporter of our work at EWTN. His programs (the weekly "Defending Life" and the daily "Pro-Life Update" are a vital part of our ministry! – Thom Price, Director of Radio Programming, EWTN

Funding the Pro-life Movement (Part 2 of 3)

Fr. Frank Pavone, National Director, Priests for Life

More money is being spent on killing babies by abortion than on saving them, and it’s up to the pro-life movement to turn that around. Yet all of us struggle with how to do that. This is the second part of a series to offer some recommendations about pro-life fundraising which we have found helpful at Priests for Life.

You don’t own your donors. – Some approach the acquisition of donors like the acquisition of a spouse, thinking that if the donor is “mine,” he or she cannot also be someone else’s. But we neither marry nor own our donors. Instead, a donor should be thought of as a friend. It is both normal and expected that your friends will have other friends. It is also understood that you can’t take friendship for granted. You have to nurture the relationship, and you need to have a give and take, paying attention to the donors’ needs just as you want them to pay attention to yours.

  • People respond to service. – There are many techniques about how to write a fundraising letter, how often to mail it, how to get people to open it, and what to do when people do and do not respond. These techniques should be studied and practiced, because they work. Yet there is one thing we need to do that will multiply powerfully any results from these special techniquest. In a sense, it is the foundational fundraising technique: Provide a quality product.
    A product may be a physical item, or information, or a service. Whatever it is, make it of the highest professional quality. Pay attention to the needs, desires, and patterns of response of the people you serve. Be available to them, and they will be generous to you and your organization.
  • Communicate a vision, not just a need – While we should state our needs honestly, the core of asking for money is not simply saying that we need it, but rather presenting a vision that you want the donor to grasp and be part of bringing to fulfillment. The excitement and promise of that vision will elicit generosity.
  • Remind people of the God of Generosity -- Scripture is clear that those who do God’s work should be supported not only spiritually but materially. Scripture is also clear that one of God’s clearest traits is generosity, and that the people who strive to be like God should likewise be generous. Leaders, therefore, should call them to generosity, not simply so that the work can be supported, but so that the donors can fulfill a key aspect of their call to spiritual growth.
  • Trust mightily in Providence – When I invited Mother Teresa to an event I planned, I was speaking to her about the financial needs connected with it. She urged me to trust God’s Providence, and said, “God has lots of money.” Foster that confidence within your heart, and then ask God to share some of that money with you through your donors!

This column can be found online at http://www.priestsforlife.org/columns/document.aspx?id=3216

Comments on this column? Go to www.AskFrFrank.com

Fr. Frank's columns are podcast. See www.PriestsForLife.org/Podcast

Financiando al movimiento pro-vida

Se gasta más dinero en el asesinato de niños por el aborto que en salvarlos, y le compete al movimiento pro-vida hacer que eso cambie. Sin embargo, todos nosotros nos debatimos sobre la forma de hacerlo. Esta es la segunda parte de una serie que ofrece algunas recomendaciones para recolectar fondos para la vida que hemos encontrado útiles en Priests for Life.

Uno no es dueño de los donantes. Algunos encaran la búsqueda de donantes como si fuera la búsqueda de una esposa, pensando que si el donante es “mío” no puede ser de nadie más. No nos casamos ni somos dueños de nuestros donantes. El donante debe ser considerado un amigo. Es normal y esperado que sus amigos tengan otros amigos. También se sobreentiende que no se puede tomar la amistad como algo garantizado. Hay que nutrir la relación, y hay que dar para recibir, prestando atención a las necesidades de los donantes, del mismo modo que Ud. desea que ellos presten atención a las suyas.

  • La gente responde al servicio. Hay muchas técnicas sobre la forma en que se debe escribir una carta para recaudar fondos, la frecuencia con que se debe enviar, como hacer para que la gente la abra y que hacer tanto cuando la gente responde como cuando no responde. Deben estudiarse y practicarse estas técnicas, porque funcionan. Pero hay una cosa que debemos hacer que multiplicará poderosamente cualquier resultado de estas técnicas especiales. En cierto sentido es la técnica fundacional de la recaudación de fondos: Provea un servicio de calidad.
    Un producto puede ser algo físico, información o un servicio. Sea lo que sea hágalo con la mejor calidad profesional. Preste atención a las necesidades, deseos y patrones de respuesta de la gente a la que sirve. Esté disponible para ellos y serán generosos con Ud. y con su organización.
  • Comunique una visión, no solamente una necesidad. Aunque debemos señalar nuestras necesidades con honestidad, el núcleo de la recaudación de fondos no es simplemente decir lo que necesitamos, sino presentar una visión que uno quiere que el donante abrace y de cuya realización sea parte. La excitación y promesa de esa visión moverán a la generosidad.
  • Recuérdele a la gente la generosidad de Dios. La Escritura es clara que aquellos que hacen el trabajo de Dios deben ser apoyados no solamente espiritual, sino materialmente. La Escritura también es clara que uno de los atributos más evidentes de Dios es su generosidad y que la gente que se empeña en ser como Dios debe ser igualmente generosa. Por lo tanto, los líderes deben llamarlos a la generosidad, no solamente para que pueda apoyarse el trabajo, sino porque los donantes pueden cumplir con un aspecto clave de su llamado al crecimiento espiritual.
  • Confíe poderosamente en la Providencia. Cuando invité a la Madre Teresa a un evento que había planeado, estaba hablando con ella de las necesidades financieras relacionadas con el evento. Me alentó a confiar en la Divina Providencia y me dijo: “Dios tiene mucho dinero”. Promueva esa confianza en su corazón y luego pídale a Dios que, a través de los donantes, comparta algo de ese dinero con Ud.

Esta columna se puede encontrar en la página de
www.priestsforlife.org/columns/document-sp.aspx?ID=3216

This week's TV shows and Radio programming:

Defending Life: Watch on EWTN every:

Friday at 10pm ET (starting Sept 2 the new airing time will be Thursday at 11pm ET) and also watch on Saturday at 2:30am ET.

Listen on EWTN radio every Friday at 1am ET, Saturday at 6:30pm ET and Sunday at 5am ET. For more information or to listen online go to www.ewtn.com.

August 20-22: Abortionists Admit the Truth

Gospel of Life: Watch on Catholic Familyland (www.familyland.tv) - Sunday at 1am, Monday at 9am, Wednesday at 3:30am and Thursday at 11:30 pm and on the National Religious Broadcasters network (NRB), Wednesday at 6pm ET.

This week on NRB: Update on the Silent No More Awareness Campaign

Hear us on EWTN radio on Catholic Connection with Teresa Tomeo. Fr. Frank Pavone is her guest every Wednesday from 9:35-10am ET and Janet Morana is her guest every Friday from 9:10-9:30am ET. For radio station information and to listen to the live show on the internet, go to www.avemariaradio.net.

Please tune in and spread the word! In fact, you can help us – and your whole parish -- by asking your pastor to place in the parish bulletin an announcement about our TV shows. Thanks in advance!

Priests For Life
PO Box 141172
Staten Island, NY 10314
Phone: 888-PFL-3448
718-980-4400
Fax: 718-980-6515
Email: mail@priestsforlife.org
www.PriestsForLife.org

God bless the heroic people at Priests for Life and pro-life advocates around the world!

God is at work in you!
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If you or someone you know is in need of healing
from abortion,
please contact:
http://www.rachelsvinyard.org

Two Mothers and Their Sons, A Saint, and the Incredible Chapel

Our experiences draw us into closer union with God.

On a recent Saturday morning I had just returned to my pew after having received our Lord in Holy Communion. I basked in the splendor of the beauty of that moment, of having God within me, of being surrounded by people who also received our Savior, and of having my 11 year old daughter by my side. My two teen sons were on the altar, each holding a paten as our holy priests distributed the Eucharist.

While kneeling down, I looked up to take in the remarkable sight of my oldest son Andre, so elegant in his black cassock, assisting at Holy Mass by reverencing the Precious Body and Blood of our beloved Savior.

Next, I caste my gaze downward to spend a moment with God. Suddenly, without knowing why, I stopped and looked up. Immediately I realized that someone on the altar was missing.

People gathered in a circle in front of the Communion rail. I scanned the scene again as my intellect confirmed what I already knew. My son Andre was the one who was missing. I got up and rushed to my son who was lying on the floor. So many kind people from our new parish were there to help that I could only get as far as his shoes. What a moment that was as I stood by my son's feet and called out his name.

The love between a mother and son is extraordinarily powerful and oh, so beautiful. God determined that our Savior would be born of the Virgin Mary. While Jesus was being Crucified, He gave us His mother to be our Mother, too. Imagine the love that Jesus has for you, add the love of our Blessed Mother to the equation, and think for a moment how very loved you are. It's incredible.

As I called out my son's name, I experienced what I call a "parallel moment." Such moments are meant to teach us and guide us into greater Divine intimacy. I thought of Our Blessed Mother standing at Jesus' feet as He hung on the Cross. Ponder what that moment was like for Mother and Son, as they set their own agendas aside to do the Will of God, all for our benefit, all because they love us that much. They showed us that we are worth loving.

Andre regained consciousness and was helped to his seat in the altar boy section. I sat beside him and loosened his collar. What wonderful people in our new parish! Someone immediately brought a wheelchair, a nurse came to help, and I was most grateful to see Barb, the daily Mass coordinator from our former parish, who came over to help, too. It was so comforting to see someone that we knew.

People were still receiving Communion and so Andre agreed to move to the chapel. God love the boy, he refused the wheelchair and walked out under his own power, although a nurse remained by his side. Once in the chapel, the wonderful people helping us had him lay down. People brought him lollipops, lemonade, granulated sugar, and soon I was holding handfuls of candy. Everyone was so kind to us it was overwhelming. A nice woman who brought candy helped Andre remove his cassock.

There's so much more to this story, and I will share another part of it.

We had been preparing for an eight-day trip East which was to include participating in the Catholic Writer's Guild Conference and Catholic Marketing Network's International Trade Show in Valley Forge, Pennsylvania. My children and I experienced tremendous persecution before embarking on this trip. One person in particular persecuted us terribly. I will call that person "Conversion," because we are praying that person is converted, soon.

What a moment, to see my son lying on the floor just before we were to embark on this trip, after he had endured opposition and persecution that targeted this trip so specifically. I was convinced that our trip would bear much fruit for God's glory, and got a glimpse of the fruit while on our trip.
St. Anthony has been so instrumental this year in our mission to encourage, inspire, and continue the faith formation of Catholics worldwide and lead souls to Christ. Our mission in particular involves instructing people that they are loved by God who has a mission for them to accomplish. Why this particular saint has taken it upon himself to be our advocate from heaven so profoundly this year remains a mystery to me, but his help has been invaluable. Thank you, St. Anthony!

Catholics faithful to the Magisterium have their work cut out for them in our culture where Satan works so hard to convince people that disobedience and pride are good things. As a result, obedient Catholics have countless opportunities to lead souls to Christ every day.

We must live in imitation of Jesus and Mary, whose example reminds us through every age that we must be obedient to God's most perfect Will.

Have you had any parallel experiences that drew you closer to God? Which saints have been your advocates this year? Have you asked the saints to help you in any of your particular needs? How has God asked you to share His love with others and lead people into greater relationship with the One who loves us immeasurably, so extraordinarily, and eternally?

Have you accepted the love of Jesus and our Blessed Mother, as well as God's mercy?

We all could benefit from doing these things more often.

Before my children and I left on our trip, I began working on an article about the life of St. Anthony. Shortly before we left, I read about a remarkable place called St. Anthony's Chapel. On a hunch, I said to my children, "Let's see where the chapel is." We discovered that the chapel is in Pittsburgh, right where we were going to stay overnight on our way to the convention in Philadelphia. There were no tours on Mondays, but there would be a tour on Tuesday, the day we would be there.

We just had to visit the chapel, and made plans to check out of our first hotel and arrive for the first tour of the day, from 1:00 - 2:00. We would embark upon the five hour drive to Valley Forge after the tour.

The front of St. Anthony's Chapel in Pittsburgh, PA

Andre programmed our GPS, which helped us find our way to the chapel through the streets of Pittsburgh. We arrived on time for the 1:00 tour. Immediately upon entering the chapel I was absolutely taken aback. The chapel was incredibly beautiful!! I wanted to take pictures inside the chapel to share with you, but it was not allowed. Obedience trumps personal desire. So, I will attempt to paint you a picture using words instead.

A statue of St. Anthony holding the Child Jesus, atop the Chapel

The chapel consists of two sections, with rows of pews running down the length of both front and back parts. The wider back half is flanked on both sides with life-sized Stations of the Cross that had been carved out of wood. These Stations of the Cross are one of only two sets in the United States. The side and front walls of the front half of the chapel are filled with thousands of relics, all of which are documented and have been cataloged. Jesus was Present in the tabernacle resting on the altar in the front of the chapel.

My children and I stood in the back before entering, absorbing the magnificent sight before us. That moment was similar to the moment when I first saw the Grand Canyon. My thoughts on both occasions turned immediately to our Creator, Who loves us more than we can ever imagine.

We slowly and reverently entered the chapel, still awestruck. It was impossible to process all there was to see and experience. We slowly walked toward the front of the chapel while viewing the life sized Stations of the Cross in the newer back half of the chapel. Life-sized statues are so very profound, for they help make events seem more real. It was very difficult to look at the life-sized Jesus represented in the various stations and attempt to consider the indescribable suffering He endured for each one of us. We are loved so very much.

As we continued to the front, I could hardly even look at the stations anymore, there was so much spiritual sensory information to take in! Then I looked to my right anyway without knowing why, and found myself standing at Someone's feet. They were not the feet of my son, they were the feet of Mary's Son. I stood at the feet of the Son of Man, who was laying on the ground and being nailed to a cross.

There is more to this story, but I leave that for another time.

My children kept going and so I followed. We walked around the front half of the church and then took a seat in the pew to pray before the Blessed Sacrament. Soon Sr. Margaret arrived to start the tour. Her explanation of the history of the Chapel, of the physician-turned-priest who had it built and was responsible for the collection of the relics, made the experience even richer. She led us around the front of the Chapel and pointed out certain relics.

I will write more about the history of this incredible Chapel later. It is a fascinating story.


Inside the chapel there are slivers from the True Cross, a piece of St. Joseph's staff, a piece of Mary's mantel, and relics of Mary Magdeline, the Apostles, and St. Therese, among so many others. Sr. Margaret pointed out relics of several saints martyred for believing in God, and also showed us St. Anthony's tooth.

The chapel has the largest collection of relics in the world outside of the Vatican. When we sat back in the pew to learn more, I realized that we were surrounded by the history of the Catholic Church. We were in the midst of the love of God manifested through the apostolate of so many of our brothers and sisters, the saints. We, too, make up the Body of Christ, and we too are called to fulfill our mission and to be saints.

It was inevitable that this joyful Catholic would once again be overcome with tears of gratitude. It was a very, very powerful visit. When Sr. Margaret said that she was going to bring us a relic of the True Cross to hold and to kiss, I cried. Oh how much we are loved and valued by God, by Jesus, by our Blessed Mother, and by the saints, who are our friends and advocates!

We budgeted an hour for our time in the chapel and left after two, still way to little time to take in and experience everything the chapel offers to souls. Sr. Margaret told us that tradition has it that one should say a prayer by the tooth of St. Anthony asking for three things. I bucked tradition and asked for eight. +

We also prayed for you while we were there.

As we were leaving, Sr. Margaret asked me some questions by the chapel steps. She was concerned about my long drive with the children to Philadelphia and the prospect of arriving there in the dark. She was so kind, so Christ-like! Most certainly working among the Blessed Sacrament and the thousands of relics does wonders for the soul. I assured her that we were called by God to visit the chapel and that He would look after us on our journey.

That's not all. To conclude this story, her final questions led to the very person who had persecuted us because of this trip! We had prayed for "Conversion" while in that most incredible chapel and then, as confirmation of what had just taken place, "Conversion's" name came up as we were leaving. Satan had used "Conversion" to persecute us so relentlessly before our trip, and yet it was during this very stop at St. Anthony's Chapel that God was at work in us when we prayed there for "Conversion's" conversion.

Catholicism is so awesome, and I LOVE being Catholic! May we never take God's magnificent love for us and our responsibility to share His love with others for granted.

Each one of us was willed into being because we are loved by God.
Each one of us is necessary in God's plan of salvation.
Embrace the apostolate God has for you.

Make it a point to visit St. Anthony's Chapel in Pittsburgh,
a wonderful treasure given to us
by our very, very loving God.

God is at work in you!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Why Should I Go To Mass?!!

Thoughts on Holy Mass and you, from one of our Lady's altar boys on the glorious Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

By Andre J. Bottesi, 15

To Jesus, through Mary. + + +

One question Catholics and non-Catholics often ask is “Why go to church?" Catholics may further ask themselves, "What am I getting out of going to Mass?” A lot of people approach their attendance at Mass as an action they are taking to get something they want, without fully understanding exactly why God wants us to attend Holy Mass.

Think of it this way. Some people wish that they could live forever. If you go to church and live a holy life, you will go to heaven and live forever. God calls us all to be saints! Some people say, “Well, I don’t go to church but I live a good life, I don’t sin that much, and I donate to charities.” To willfully decide to not attend Mass, without sufficient reason for not going, is to disrespect what God has told us to do. God gave each of us life and has a mission for each one of us to accomplish. We should go to church and thank Him for the opportunity.

Some people go to church but attend only because they feel they have to, and lots of people say they find church boring. Well, those people should ask themselves why they find it to be so boring. Holy Mass is actually very engaging and involved; you get to sit, stand, kneel, sing, pray, receive Jesus in the Eucharist, and so much more! How can that be boring?


Some may feel that going to Holy Mass is just an extra thing to do when they are already so busy, but it isn’t, not even close! Your participation in the Sacrifice of the Mass is necessary for your discipleship, and your relationship with God must take precedence in your life above all other things.


One of the greatest graces you can receive by going to Mass is receiving the Eucharist. Church is also a very powerful place to pray for someone, for we are praying in the True Presence of God. Who knows, someone may be at church praying for you during Holy Mass right now. There is a Mass being said somewhere on earth every few minutes. Going to church is such an important part of your relationship with God and your mission, so why would you want to miss it even once?


People commonly say “I work on Sundays so I can’t go to Mass.” However, God told us to keep holy the Sabbath, and so we should not work on Sunday unless absolutely necessary. To do otherwise is to go against God's will. In addition, many people can find a parish with a Mass at a time they are available. To find the Mass schedule of parishes near you, go online or call local parishes. Holy Mass is a wonderful, vital part of your day and your life. Don’t miss out because you feel like you can’t make it.

The Light of the World by William Holman Hunt, 1853-4
Jesus wears the crown of thorns and holds the light,
He is our light,
and politely knocks (notice no doorknob)
at the door that has not been recently opened,
eager to be allowed into our homes and our lives.
May our beloved Savior never be neglected or rejected
by what we have done or failed to do!


Going to Holy Mass will strengthen you and keep you going throughout the rest of your week. Remember too that you can go to Mass more than once a week. Try going twice a week. Then when you feel ready, go three times a week, then four, and so one. In no time you may find yourself going to Mass every day. Remember to keep your church attendance in balance and definitely don’t go if you are sick.

Let the work of your hands be the work of His hands.

You should also get involved in the Mass. Join the choir, help bring up the gifts during the offertory, and if you are a guy a great way to get involved in the Mass is to become an altar boy. You can also be an usher or greeter. There are many different jobs available. I am glad that I am an altar boy. Participating helped me understand the Mass more and I began to see Holy Mass in a whole new way. It is such a wonderful experience!

Corpus Christi

Church is a word that means something different to everyone.
Write down some words that come to mind
when you hear the word "church."


The words you wrote may be how you feel about the Mass, a memory from Mass, an emotion you feel when you hear the word, etc. There could even be a random word that you think of when you hear the word church. No matter what you wrote, the words represent what you think and feel about going to church.


There is something I want you to do. Speak to someone in your parish and become involved in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, if you aren’t already. I also want you to make a chart on a piece of paper and put it up on a wall in your house.

The chart will look like this.

Date


The Gospel Reading


One thing I learned at Mass today


Make the chart, and write the words that come to mind when you say the word "church" under the chart. Then fill in the chart each time you return home from Mass. Start out by doing this for one month. After one month, write down at the bottom of the sheet the words that come to mind when you hear the word "church." Compare the two lists of words and see if there is a difference.

I hope that this can help you have a better understanding of church and the Mass. Keep going and keep growing closer to God.


If you want to find true Joy, go to Mass. Every person's mission includes knowing Him, loving Him, and serving Him. Life is too short for you to miss out on praising God, thanking Him, and receiving Him during Mass. Jesus waits for you in the Eucharist at Mass.

If everyday troubles are making it hard for you to see the joy in life, then go to Mass! Mass will help ease your burden and will give you His strength to keep persevering. No matter how bad things may seem, God will have good come out of it when we unite our wills with His. God has a plan for you. You are special and God will always love you!


Do not be afraid to face God if you did something bad in your past. You can be forgiven for anything you have done in the Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession). God does not want you living in fear of Him, He wants you to step into the light and share your sorrow, your joy, your excitement, your pain, everything with Him. The One that saved you sees you in a special way and loves you beyond anything you could imagine!

God wants you there and eagerly waits for you,
and all in heaven rejoice
when you worship God in His house,
a place called church.

There is a place reserved for you at His table.
See you in church!!

Once you fall in love with the Mass,
check out Eucharistic Adoration and Benediction
and fall in love with God even more!

God is at work in you!

Thank you, Andre, for leading souls to Christ.


Thank you, Blessed Virgin Mary,
for being our Mother
and for showing us the way to Jesus.

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Sources:
Photos: Copyright 2010 JKP.


Saturday, August 14, 2010

No Turning Back: A Witness to Mercy by Fr. Donald Calloway, MIC (Marian Press)

God's love and mercy are available to every single person, without exception.

Last week Fr. Donald H. Calloway, MIC spoke at the Valley Forge Convention Center and shared the story of his life and miraculous conversion. Afterward he signed copies of his book No Turning Back: A Witness to Mercy (2010).

Fr. Donald's written account of his very troubled youth and subsequent encounter with the mercy of God through our Blessed Mother is so compelling, readers will find it difficult to put the book down.

We get a sense of what Father Donald's early life was like from chapter titles that include "Animal," "Burning Down the House," "The Divine 2 x 4," and "Surfer Priest."

The effects of years of reckless drug and alcohol use and criminal activity had him bound and chained by the forces of evil. Then early one morning he literally ran in search of a Catholic priest and found himself at Holy Mass. During the Consecration he heard a voice say to him, twice, "Worship!"

More extraordinary than reading his personal testimony of the tremendous love and mercy of God that saved him from disaster was hearing Fr. Donald speak about it all in person.
Fr. Donald is a powerful witness to the fact that
God loves each one of us so very much,
and
reminds us that every single person has a mission.
He assures us that there is hope for everyone,
that prayer works (so don't stop praying!),
and that we have a most loving Mother in the Blessed Virgin Mary,
Our Lady of Victory.

The audience was captivated by his down-to-earth approach and engaging ability to tell it like it is (in my teen son's words) that had us laughing so hard we cried and also had us crying because we were touched so deeply by the man, his mission, and the immeasurable and eternal love of God always available to us.
Fr. Donald gives his moving testimony
of Divine Mercy at work in his soul.

Fr. Donald spoke very poignantly on man's search for happiness, a topic he also wrote about in his book. "I had put a lot of different things on my tongue looking for happiness. I had drunk a lot of different liquids looking for that eternal high, something that was more, something that would satisfy me forever. Here was the answer. God! And He had penetrated my world through the Virgin Mary and had drawn me to Himself and invited me to partake of His very self, the food that brings eternal life. And the drink that sustains. I was totally blown away." 1

We spoke briefly with Fr. Donald after his lecture. As I looked into the eyes of this remarkable Marian priest who is sharing the love and mercy of God in such a powerful way, I would add that in addition he has gone from also using his sense of sight, which once sought the elusive joy the world promises and cannot sustain, to now look into the eyes of his flock made up of all of humanity and shepherd us toward true joy which is found only in the eternal love of God.

Catholic authors
Fr. Donald Calloway,
Andre, Nick, Alyssa Bottesi,
& Michele Bondi Bottesi
at the Catholic Marketing Network International Trade Show
in Pennsylvania August, 2010.

One of my favorite parts of No Turning Back is his mother's letter,
which concludes the book.

She wrote,
"God, I love the boy who became a man
ordained by mercy and grace
to do God's will."
2

If you have not read No Turning Back: A Witness to Mercy by Fr. Donald H. Calloway, be sure to get it, read it, and pass it around! God's love changes lives.

For more information, please visit: http://www.fathercalloway.com/

God is at work in you.

_______________________
Sources:
1. Donald H. Calloway, MIC, No Turning Back: A Witness to Mercy (Stockbridge, MA: Marian Press, 2010), p. 172.
2. IBID, p. 263.
Cover of the book copyright 2010 Marian Press.
All other photos copyright 2010 JKP.